Making out is probably the most common thing in a relationship. Question is, are you any good at it?
How to make out with your partner and know that he or she’s enjoying it? When things start to really heat up and it’s almost near to impossible to stop. Yep, that’s a sure telling right there. It’s common for couples to indulge in make out sessions. A lot would even go as far as claiming that it’s one of their turn ons. I know I do. You can gauge the chemistry of your relationship with how hot it can get just making out. Key rule to remember on how to make out is to not force your partner. Both parties should be into it.
With how to make out, there are some people who would comment that it basically comes out naturally without even making efforts. Making out is one way of expressing your emotions. When words fail, let the mouths and hands do the talking. Kissing and caressing each other is another way of saying you appreciate the other person. And then there’s the crass way of taking things – making out is a prelude to sex. Sexual attraction is the fuel that drives couples to make out. Obviously.
When it comes to making out, you have to be sure that you are comfortable with it in the entirety. Making out with someone you have feelings for can be quite a thrill-ride – intense and electrifying.
I’ve been yakking on and on about how to make out when I have yet to establish what exactly it is. Basically, it’s an extended kissing session with variety and hand coordination. Through your kisses and touches, you are showing to your partner that you appreciate and want him or her.
Here are some basic but effective tips you can go by:
The magic of your touch.
Every time you touch your partner should be affectionate. But nothing is more erotic than a touch that screams “I want you.” How to distinguish such touch from a regular one? It’s a lingering touch given at a certain circumstances plus a telling look bestowed to your partner. Making out is a product of the moment. You suddenly have this urge in you to get closer to your partner, hence the reason why they say making out is another way of expressing your emotions. Touch your partner’s face, caress his or her ears or play with his or her hands. Make sure that your partner is comfortable with all this. A note to girls, don’t wait for him to make the first move all the time. When you feel like appreciating his existence in your life, don’t hesitate and stinge on the touches. A note for the guys, touching is different from groping and pawing. When you touch her, touch her because you appreciate her.
Let your lips do some working
Without even saying a word, your lips can do the simple but effective ways implicating that romance is on its way. It may even make the experience more adventurous from time to time. Sucking, licking, and even gentle but harmless biting can fire up the senses.
Make it last longer
There are instances when your man would love to make it last longer so respect his desire. Just keep on moving your fingers from his hair down to his neck as you continually go down to the shoulders and down, down to the waist. It will increase the momentum and fire up his senses even more.
Each time he responds to your kisses, gently work on a little teeth work that would later on lead you to alternate it with some performances using your tongue, short but hot French kisses is fine at this point. If he responds, let him do it and simply support him each time he presses your body or your hand a little. Give in for as long as you want and show that his desire is important to you by waiting for him. Just carry on for a little longer.
How to Make Out
Mind the rhythm. When he started off with a closed-mouthed kiss, please don’t choke him with your tongue. Refrain from acting super hyper when your partner is coming off as mellow. Pay attention to every detail – his body language, his tongue his touches as this can help you relate and connect to him well. If you want to change pace, do it gradually.
Keep your tongue in check. Literally. The tongue is the essence of the French kiss so make sure you employ it well. Don’t go over bound – I doubt anyone likes a tongue shoved down his or her throat. Introduce tongue moves lightly and appropriately.
Put variance. Don’t limit yourself to the mouth. Explore your partner’s face. I mentioned nibbling, but never bite your partner. Refrain also from licking your partner like a dog. The most turn on part to nibble is the ears and the bottom lip. Indulge in them.
Talk with your partner, laugh at the moment and keep things light. Make out sessions need not start heavy though it most often ends up that way.