Just as much as you love your blowjob, women crave the oral pleasure as well.
How to eat out a girl and get her toes curling, legs shaking with pleasure? Now, the art of oral pleasure is more than just the three T’s – tips, tricks and techniques. True, they’re quite handy and fun to learn and employ. Incorporate emotions and much gusto in it and you’re certified to make her melt. Cunnilingus or fellatio is always about the pleasure of both parties and not just for the receiving end. Women cannot climax as fast as men – but a little cunnilingus can greatly help.
It’s crucial for men to learn how to eat a girl out, just as it’s important for women to learn the art of fellatio. It takes two to tango. You can’t be self-centered and focus more on your pleasure alone. Some men go about it just so they’d get the same favor from her. While there are those who truly enjoy eating a girl out, and are adept at performing cunnilingus. If you still haven’t mastered the art of oral pleasures, anytime is always the good time to start learning – and practicing!
Women101 – only about a fourth of the female population achieve orgasm through penile penetration; the rest prefer to get pleasured through cunnilingus. If men can easily get stimulated for about five seconds; women needs to get ‘warmed up’ first to avoid any pain and discomfort before you do any stimulation to her nether region.
Slow down to get her to orgasm quickly
As mentioned, women need to be warmed up. They don’t do the whole “wham-bam-thank you ma’am” routine. It may come off as too much of a chore for you, but preparing your woman can save you time later. If you tease her slow and long, she will be so aroused, she’d literally be begging for you to let her off. The time you spend preparing her is inversely proportional to the time you will spend between her legs.
If you try to hurry things up, the more she’ll have a hard time reaching for her orgasm; and feeling self-conscious, will resort to faking it just to get it over with and to save your ego. Try some shower foreplay with her. This will take her mind off things and will ease her concern about whether she’s clean enough down there.
Coax her into purring
Don’t grope or pounce on her. Rather, tease her genitals. Indulge in some tongue play with her while slowly moving a thigh between her legs and grind in, moving it up and down. The overall vibration offers greater arousing effect than using a finger or two. The indirect contact with the clitoris and vagina can get her really warmed up. Nibble your way to her collarbone her chest, down to her skirt as a teasing prelude. If she starts grinding her skirt to your face, it’s a sure telling she’s dying to get out of her knickers. Cue for you to start breathing and licking her through her undies. By doing this, you are ensuring an explosive reaction once you do get down on her clitoris.
Find your way to her clitoris
Before we get ahead, if you don’t know what a clitoris is, then you seriously lack the consideration for female pleasure. It’s a wonder you even get any at all. Moving on. To locate a woman’s clitoris, use her inner lips, or the labia minora, as a guide. Lick, kiss, and nibble starting from the bottom until they come together towards the top. The fleshy horizontal fold above that is her clitoris. This little epicenter, is the most sensitive area. Some clitorises jump out while others do hide and needs for you to pull the clitoral hood back just to get to the love button. A gentle lick on it is enough to send a woman close to orgasm. Focusing on her clit, make light and slow circles around it. Alternately strike it and then move on with your earlier slow circle tongue movements around the clitoris.
The trick to eating out a girl is to not indulge in too much licking as this can actually be painful for her and can cause irritation. Use variance – nipping, sucking even breathing on her exposed clitoris can bring her to the edge. Don’t focus on her vagina only, pay adoration to her inner thighs by slightly nipping them and using your hands to rub them.
Mind you, these are just the basics. There are more advanced techniques that you can master in order to mold the best way to eat a girl out which you can pick from almost everywhere – magazines, porn movies, instructional materials, even bar room conversations.
More on eating pussy 😉
Eating her out involves more than just your tongue and her vagina – it’s her whole body actually. There’s no universal way on how to orally satisfy a woman, but picking up guides and techniques always help.
How to eat a pussy, how to go down on a woman, how to perform oral sex, how to eat a girl out, how to eat hair pie and so on. Call the act whatever you want, but nothing is more erotic and more satisfying than it. Seeing a woman melt because of your sexual prowess is enough to inflate any man’s ego. The vagina is the essence of sex, the home of the clitoris, the source of pleasure, the center of her sexual universe. If you don’t know how to eat a pussy, then it’s about godamn time you learn how if you ever want to continue getting some. Seriously, it’s even a wonder you’re getting any if you don’t know how to likewise give pleasure to your woman.
If you know how to eat a pussy, songs could be written about you. More, statues erected to your likeness and college dorms named after you. No more lonely nights alone wanking and jerking to last year’s issue of Penthouse. Just like what one of the girls in “Sex and the City” said, “If a man can do that well, he doesnÂt need to do anything else.” Damn right.
Show me a girl who doesn’t love getting her pussy showered with love. And if you’re one of those still new in this form of pleasure, or just want to pick up new techniques of orally pleasuring her, I can help you with that.
First off, you must be able to determine a Volvo from that of a vulva, an oven hood from a clitoral hood. If you can’t, grab your HS Biology book and flip to the reproductive health chapter. Refresh on the anatomy of the female organ and when you’re done, then you can get back to me and find out exactly how to eat a pussy. To simplify things, let’s approach it in a do and don’t kind of way.
DO remember that no two persons are the same. One woman’s honey may be poison to another, hence the no universal way of orally pleasuring women. Instructions are okay, might work, but key element is still communication. Keep talking to her, ask her what she wants, if she likes what you’re doing or not. If she likes it, then go on with what you’re doing; if she says otherwise, don’t worry, just lower the notch a bit or gradually shift technique.
DON’T immediately dive her vagina as soon as you got her naked. Take the slow, sweet and torturous path – trust me, it’ll all be worth it. Always start with her neck and shoulders. Kissing, licking, caressing down to her chest, spending few extra time on her breasts. Play with her nipples, I can’t express enough how sensitive they are. Give adoration to the insides of her thighs, her claves and including her feet. When you do reach her vagina, she’ll be so eager and aching for your tongue.
DO enjoy yourself down there and make sure to take your time. Key to pleasuring her is when you do it with gusto. Show her how turned on you are and how much you love eating her out. Savor it – the taste, the smell, the glory of it all. Rub your thumbs all over the soft folds of her flesh. You can alternate between licking, caressing, kissing and sucking. It’s not an ice pop that’s in any danger of melting, so no need to hurry. Be thorough and slow – she’ll appreciate it.
DON’T jump her guns by immediately going for her clitoris. Just because men are result-oriented, you should go ahead and make her cum fast. The art of cunnilingus is not about the orgasm, but the whole experience of it – the journey towards the orgasm. Lick the inside and outside of the pussy lips first, or the labia minora, using broad, flat strokes of the tongue. Lick the insides of her vagina. You can also stiffen your tongue and tongue-fuck her hole. The whole point is, play with her pussy. When you see that she’s getting wild, make her wilder by focusing on her clitoris then. Go ahead and knock yourself out.
DO try and experiment with different positions. Things become stale and boring because of repetition. Remember, diversity and variance is what keeps the whole sex act hot and consuming. So don’t hesitate experimenting with your partner. If you’re the kind of lover who keeps her guessing whatÂs next, what’s new and what’s different, then you’re most likely the top of her hit list of people she’ll always look forward making love to.
There’s really no downside to giving a woman oral pleasures – no mystery, no taboo as well. To be her best lover, just remember to kiss, lick and suck your heart away.